BYF:- I follow the simple principle of "I will respect you if you respect me". I will never talk about things you are uncomfortable with openly as long as I'm made aware upfront. I am not a mind reader, I need to know these things in order to make the space suitable and comfortable for the two of us. I can't help you if you don't tell me.- I deal with extreme anxiety. Anything can spark it, and there's nothing people can really do and it's not (usually) their fault. Sometimes my actions or words can be very hasty due to this, but I try my best to improve.- I use tone tags since I can't tell the tone from text. However I will not get mad if you don't use them, but I will ask sometimes about the tone if required!- I do not participate in the whole proship/anti discourse. The way I see it is, as long as there's no children or animals involved, and the content is tagged correctly, who honestly gives a fuck. I'm simply too old for shit like this and have the ability to consume my media with a critical eye. I will not entertain you, leave if you're going to try and argue with me about this.- ABSOLUTELY DO NOT INTERACT if you partake in shota/loli or zoo. These are fucking gross and I do not condone them. Get help.- Homophobia/transphobia/hate speech obviously isn't tolerated. I shouldn't have to say this, but yanno, people.- I am not a fan of self-DXing without getting a professional's opinion (as in, if you self-DX but never get a second opinion because apparently that needs clarified), nor anyone that interacts heavily with the "mental illness" side of tiktok. Too many people fake things like DID, BPD, ADHD, and go as far as to infantilize ASD. Its harmful for those of us with the actual disorder and makes it harder for medical professionals to take us seriously.So, to be clear, I do not have an issue with self diagnosis, my issue lies however in people not seeking out the help they need and instead choosing to believe what unqualified people on social media say. These same unqualified people will also at times discourage others from actually seeking a professional, which does more harm than good.ABSOLUTELY DO NOT INTERACT WITH ME IF YOU LARP/RP ACTUAL DECEASED HUMAN BEINGS AND CLAIM TO BE THEM. It's super disrespectful to not only the dead, but their friends and family. Stay away from me and take that shit somewhere else.- I have a few comfort characters that I don't want to hear your fantasies about. Keep it to yourself.

INTERESTS

As mentioned in the "about" section, I do a lot of writing and art from time to time, taking inspiration from ye olde late 80's to early 90's anime. However I do have other things I do as well, like collecting video games or anything related to hide and X Japan as a whole.Below, you'll find a list of things I'm also into. Nothing interesting I think, but who knows, maybe we might click. :]